angelarpharm:xlalalouise:xcamilleeee:infinitebutterflies:yerawizardharry:sectumsempra-:jauwtheliar // SOMFL.
Letting go is like getting a tooth pulled out from the dentist. Pull it out, you’re relieved. But how many times does your tongue run itself over the spot where the tooth once was? Probably a hundred times a day. Just because it doesn’t hurt doesn’t mean you won’t notice it. It leaves a gap and sometimes you see yourself missing it terribly.
- If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn’t want you, nothing can make him stay.- Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
- If you have ANY doubt in your mind about a man’s character, leave him alone.
- Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
- Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that’s not meant to be.
- Don’t force an attraction.
- Slower is better.
- Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
- If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no you can’t “be friends.” A friend wouldn’t mistreat a friend.
- Have faith in God regarding your relationship, but don’t let faith make you stupid. God does things decent and in order.
- Don’t settle.
- If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
- If he keeps changing his mind about the relationship—take that as a BIG sign that he is unstable. Do you really want to be with a man like that?
- Don’t stay because you think “it will get better.” You’ll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
- Honorable men take care of their business and aren’t involved in a whole lot of mess.
- The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
- There’s only one ‘reason’ a man dumps you; he doesn’t want you.
- Avoid men who’ve got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn’t marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently?
- You really do have to kiss a few frogs before finding the prince.
- Always put yourself and your happiness first.
- Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
- Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up.
- Like from the show Sex and the City, if he doesn’t call, he just isn’t that interested.
- Be honest and upfront.
- Know when to cut the cord, don’t be strung along.
- Don’t fall for the “I’m confused role”. Remove yourself from the situation to let him figure things out (but don’t wait for him, move on).
- If you want to have a clue as to how he will treat you, watch how he treats the WOMEN in his family (not just mom).
- There’s more than physical abuse, there’s emotional and mental abuse. If he causes any of them…flee.
- You cannot change a man’s behaviors. Change comes from within.
- Don’t let him place rules on you that he is not willing to follow himself — double-standard.
- Don’t EVER make him feel he is more important than you are…even if he has more education or in a better job.
- Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
- Demand respect and if he can’t give it, he can’t have you!
- Don’t compete with other woman, but be aware that men are attracted to what they see.
- If you think he is cheating, he probably is. Confront him right away and if you feel he’s lying, let him go.
- Actions speak louder than words.
- Never let a man define who you are.
- Never rely on a man for compliments, look to yourself for that.
- Never borrow someone else’s man.
- If he cheated with you, he’ll cheat on you.
- Just because he says he loves you, doesn’t mean that he won’t hurt you and it doesn’t mean that you are meant to be with him.
- To use painful hard-won wisdom — ‘get it right’ the next time.
- Know that you deserve to be the number one person in the life of the No.1 person in your life.
- Love is a verb …
- Learn to give up your lifelong task of trying to make someone unavailable-available, someone ungiving-giving, and someone unloving-loving.
- A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
- All men are NOT dogs.
- You should not be the one doing all the bending…compromise is a two way street.
- If you don’t love self…you can’t love anyone else.
- You cannot mend someone else’s broken heart.
- You need time to heal between relationships…there is nothing cute about baggage…deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.
- You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you…a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals…look for someone complementary…not supplementary.
- Dating is fun…even if he doesn’t turn out to be Mr. Right.
- NEVER give more in a relationship than you are getting out of it.
- Never become your man’s “therapist”.
- When actions and words conflict, believe the actions. Respond to the actions.
- A real healthy relationship requires two people. One person can end it - but it takes two to make it work.
- Don’t fall for the “I’m not the loving type”…when a man loves you there is nothing in this world (within reason) that he wouldn’t do for you.
- Make him miss you sometimes…when a man always know where you are, and you’re always readily available to him he takes it for granted.
- Give him his space…let him go out with his boys, don’t pressure him to spend time with you, You cant force a man to hang out with you.
- If you wouldn’t allow your daughter to be with him you shouldn’t.
- Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
- Never move into his mother’s house.
- Provide financially for yourself and don’t depend on anyone.
- Never co-sign for a man.
- Never believe you have the perfect guy and he is so innocent.
- Never spoil your man; let him spoil you.
- Never let a man mess up your credit.
- When it’s time to let go; let go.
- Good men should be treated like good men.
- Don’t play games.
- Don’t fully commit to a man who doesn’t give you everything that you need.
- Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
- Compatibility in terms of educational attainment, values, beliefs, personal and career goals, and socioeconomic status, are important.
- Never date a guy who wears color contact lens.
